Comments on: It was murder http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/ “In the South, perhaps more than any other region, we go back to our home in dreams and memories, hoping it remains what it was on a lazy, still summer’s day twenty years ago.”—-Willie Morris Wed, 08 Sep 2010 16:01:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Carroll http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-6247 Carroll Thu, 29 May 2008 15:45:47 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-6247 I only knew the surface, and in my adolescence did not consider what the implications might be. How do you heal from such sadness? You covered your pain when we were younger. Today, putting your story into words is therapeutic. Having an audience interact with you while you tell it...now that's powerful. Bless you my friend. I only knew the surface, and in my adolescence did not consider what the implications might be. How do you heal from such sadness? You covered your pain when we were younger. Today, putting your story into words is therapeutic. Having an audience interact with you while you tell it…now that’s powerful. Bless you my friend.

]]> By: stepherz.com » Blog Archive » DeLurk Yo http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4110 stepherz.com » Blog Archive » DeLurk Yo Wed, 03 Oct 2007 22:20:05 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4110 [...] I’ve had a few inquiries for the next parts to “It was Murder“. I don’t mean to be suspenseful, I’m just debating whether I should save that for NaBloPoMo. It’s always been in my plan to write the whole story all down (and it could make a book– there’s that much), and that might encourage me to do it… We’ll see. If not, I’ll be posting Part 3 soon. Thanks for you interest, it’s healthy for me to tell the story. [...] […] I’ve had a few inquiries for the next parts to “It was Murder“. I don’t mean to be suspenseful, I’m just debating whether I should save that for NaBloPoMo. It’s always been in my plan to write the whole story all down (and it could make a book– there’s that much), and that might encourage me to do it… We’ll see. If not, I’ll be posting Part 3 soon. Thanks for you interest, it’s healthy for me to tell the story. […]

]]> By: Special K Toni http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4038 Special K Toni Fri, 28 Sep 2007 12:43:03 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4038 Steph- I have read this several times. I just don't know what to say. Steph- I have read this several times. I just don’t know what to say.

]]> By: Gina http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4011 Gina Tue, 25 Sep 2007 14:29:30 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4011 I am so sorry for Helen and your Mom. What madness to suffer through. I am glad they had the evidence under their nails. I am sorry you've had to suffer the build up and after math of their deaths, Stepherz. You are a strong woman. I am so sorry for Helen and your Mom. What madness to suffer through. I am glad they had the evidence under their nails.

I am sorry you’ve had to suffer the build up and after math of their deaths, Stepherz. You are a strong woman.

]]> By: Lauren http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4007 Lauren Tue, 25 Sep 2007 04:38:15 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4007 I am so sorry. I honestly have no idea what to say except that I am so sorry you had to go through this. I am so sorry. I honestly have no idea what to say except that I am so sorry you had to go through this.

]]> By: Cheri http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4003 Cheri Mon, 24 Sep 2007 17:09:08 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4003 Wow. Like many I'm speechless, very sorry for your loss and not sure of what the hell to say! Damn! Wow. Like many I’m speechless, very sorry for your loss and not sure of what the hell to say! Damn!

]]> By: my float http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4001 my float Mon, 24 Sep 2007 08:44:32 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-4001 I am so sorry. (Everyone else has said things so nicely, all I can do is agree and send you hugs and blessings.) I am so sorry. (Everyone else has said things so nicely, all I can do is agree and send you hugs and blessings.)

]]> By: Deana http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-3998 Deana Mon, 24 Sep 2007 01:56:02 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-3998 OMG surely this maniac didn't get away with this?...and your poor mom was an innocent victim caught up in her friend's drama...oh honey. No wonder your mama walks and cries. I've always heard that when you die in a situation like her's that sometimes you can't let go yet to the other side. Maybe she wants to avenge her death. But I feel so much for you. I am such a believer in things like that anyway and being terrified I'd have to face a ghost and bless your heart you do. I guess you can take it if it is your mother and you know she doesn't want to hurt you. You poor poor girl. I've only had one other friend who has known something so awful that close up. I know you have a part of that with you everyday. I am so sorry. Have you ever considered having a professional come and try to help bridge between you and your mom and maybe she can get peace and move on? People would probably think you're insane but what do they know.... I had no idea....again I am so sorry. I've always known you were a very strong person. But I had no idea just how incredibly strong you really are. OMG surely this maniac didn’t get away with this?…and your poor mom was an innocent victim caught up in her friend’s drama…oh honey. No wonder your mama walks and cries. I’ve always heard that when you die in a situation like her’s that sometimes you can’t let go yet to the other side. Maybe she wants to avenge her death. But I feel so much for you. I am such a believer in things like that anyway and being terrified I’d have to face a ghost and bless your heart you do. I guess you can take it if it is your mother and you know she doesn’t want to hurt you.

You poor poor girl. I’ve only had one other friend who has known something so awful that close up. I know you have a part of that with you everyday. I am so sorry. Have you ever considered having a professional come and try to help bridge between you and your mom and maybe she can get peace and move on? People would probably think you’re insane but what do they know….

I had no idea….again I am so sorry. I’ve always known you were a very strong person. But I had no idea just how incredibly strong you really are.

]]> By: Meghan http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-3995 Meghan Sun, 23 Sep 2007 14:45:56 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-3995 As I continued to read, my sadness was overlapped by rage. How on Earth could a jury acquit a monster like that... with that kind of evidence? In any case, how horrific to have to live with that loss and those memories, Steph. Are you still close to/in touch with Helen's childen? As I continued to read, my sadness was overlapped by rage. How on Earth could a jury acquit a monster like that… with that kind of evidence?

In any case, how horrific to have to live with that loss and those memories, Steph. Are you still close to/in touch with Helen’s childen?

]]> By: Sophia http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-3993 Sophia Sun, 23 Sep 2007 03:48:50 +0000 http://stepherz.com/2007/09/21/it-was-murder/#comment-3993 I'm sorry Steph. I wish I could put my feelings about this into words. I’m sorry Steph. I wish I could put my feelings about this into words.

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